Care for Baby
Updated on 24 November 2022
New parents go through a lot of difficulties in the first few years of their baby’s life. They have gone through pregnancy, labor, and delivery and are now ready to go home and start a new life with their baby with a clueless mind. And just when they think they are bonding with their baby, their little one starts throwing temper tantrums.
But don’t worry, in this article, we will discuss what are tantrums, why kids throw temper tantrums and how to manage them.
Temper tantrums are known as sudden outbursts of anger and frustration in children. Screaming, kicking, hitting, and breath-holding are all examples of temper tantrums in addition to whining and sobbing. They are just as common in boys as in girls and are frequent between the ages of 1 to 3.
Your kid may display the following signs during a temper tantrum:
Whining, crying and shouting
Kicking, hitting and pinching
Swinging arms and legs
Holding their breath
Tensing the body or going limp.
Tantrums are a child's way of expressing their anger and frustration of not being in control or not being able to cope with a particular situation. Since kids are not able to express their feelings through words, they throw temper tantrums. Hunger, tiredness and sickness can worsen the tantrums.
Here are some reasons why kids may throw temper tantrums:
Kids may feel their parents' absence throughout the day. Hence, they express it through crying, showing frustration, and anger that will get them immediate attention from their parents.
Kids may not have had proper rest throughout the day or are tired. This makes them slow and irritable, and they refuse to engage in the activities. They eventually become difficult to handle when they see their parents after a long day.
Kids may also have a meltdown when they can’t have something they want, it could be a toy or candy.
Children can be frightened by strange sights, sudden noises, and new people. Separation anxiety and fear of strangers are common among them, and they develop a feeling of panic.
An uncomfortable situation can also lead the kids to throw temper tantrums. The causes can be staying unwell or being in pain throughout the day. They then want love, affection, and care as they see them. The only way to communicate is through body language.
Kids also show hunger tantrums. Hunger tantrums change the child's mood rapidly and quickly. If they have not been appropriately fed throughout the day, they shout, scream, and throw things around.
Temper tantrums are a part of your child’s normal development. They are frequent when your child is learning to be more independent, mostly between ages 1 to 4. You can expect them to throw at least one temper tantrum a day, lasting between 2-15 minutes. As your child starts school and learns to express themselves verbally, temper tantrums usually decrease.
If your child has violent tantrums that last longer than 15 minutes, it could be a sign of something more serious. You should talk to a doctor if your child has frequent violent outbursts.
Instead of letting the temper tantrums escalate, you should try to prevent them in the first place. Here are some ideas you can try:
Give some extra attention to your baby. Praise them for their excellent behavior and show them how proud you are of them. Hug them and shower them with extra love and attention.
Try to show your toddler that they have some control over things. Offer them small choices like whether they want to brush their teeth before or after a bath or what they want to wear today.
If you can’t offer your toddler what they want, offer them something else. Or try to distract them to a new activity and channelize their energy. Ask them to help you in the kitchen and reward them for good behavior.
Keep your child in a well-planned routine. The pattern for breakfast, nap, and wake-up time should be followed regularly to avoid tantrums. This gives the child a sense of security.
Instead of dismissing their demands with a big NO, listen to their requests and consider them carefully. An instant No or Yes are never good options, instead, tell them we’ll think about it.
Sometimes it becomes challenging for the parents to cope with their child’s temper tantrums. As babies grow, ms increase and become louder andpattern unmanageable. You need to understand the situation from your toddler’s perspective. The child needs to understand that their needs matter to you and that you care about them.
Do your best to respond calmly and keep a healthy relationship with the child. If you react with anger and loud voices, your toddler will automatically follow and imitate the same behavior.
Gentle and soothing touches can also help calm your child. Taking them to a quiet place, rubbing their back, and singing slowly can also help calm them down.
Give your child time to calm down. Once they have calmed down, ask them the reason for their behavior and understand and explain the reason for not doing it.
If your child is throwing a tantrum because they’re hungry or sleepy, offer them food or a quick nap.
If your child tries to hurt themself, hold them close and remove any dangerous objects from their sight.
If nothing works, try to distract them with a new activity and constructively channelize their energy.
Do not give in to your child’s demands if they start throwing a temper tantrum. This will only prove to your little one that throwing tempers are right and effective.
You should consult a doctor regarding your child’s temper tantrums in the following cases:
Your child’s tantrums persist or worsen after age 4.
Your child tries to hurt themself or damage nearby objects and property.
Your child holds their breath or faints during a temper tantrum.
You feel frustrated and don’t know how to manage your toddler.
Your child’s tantrums are causing them to be disagreeable and distant all the time.
Temper tantrums are a regular thing in every child’s development. They will seem never-ending, but they don’t last forever. Be mindful of your child’s needs and anticipate them as much as possible. Keep yourself calm because children need love, care, and attention from day one. As they grow up, they learn to cope with their frustration and have more control over their tantrums. Also, seek professional help if your child is harming themself or others.
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Mittali Khurana
Mittali is a content writer by profession. She is a dynamic writer with 04+ years of experience in content writing for E-commerce, Parenting App & Websites, SEO.
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